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ROCKY START FOR SELF-ESTEEM MOVEMENT - tdigirolamo Fri, Jun 1, 2001 at 11:43:20
AND THIS WAS THE BEGINNING OF THE SELF-ESTEEM THERAPY MOVEMENT IN THE PUBLIC
SCHOOLS. ACADEMICS GOT LOST IN ABSOLUTE CONTROL


YOU WOULDN'T KNOW IT BY READING THIS STORY WRITTEN IN 1968, WITH ALL DUE RESPECT TO JAY MAEDER, BUT THIS STORY BEGAN WITH TEACHERS WHO REFUSED TO TEACH THE SELF-ESTEEM THERAPY METHOD COMING TO THEIR SCHOOL IN BROOKLYN NEW YORK.THOSE TEACHERS WERE FIRED.IT STARTED A LONG AND BRUTAL TEACHERS STRIKE.TODAYS ARCHIVE STORY NEVER MENTIONED WHAT CAUSED THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.LOST IS THE FACT THAT SOME TEACHERS SAW THE FAILURE OF THE SELF-ESTEEM TEACHING.
Woman Finds Porn Videos Healing - tdigirolamo Fri, Jun 1, 2001 at 11:39:14
SCHOOL VIOLENCE PAST... FISTS, ERASES, SPITBALLS - tdigirolamo Sat, May 26, 2001 at 09:31:05
By Henry A. Honig
President, The West End Media Group

I was reflecting on school violence and thought back to my youth when we
recited the Regents Prayer every morning before class started.


Let me tell you that there was violence in our schools then, too. In my
high school, a young man was killed over fraternity turf in 1961, prior
to the end of school prayer. Guns were not used, just fists. The killer
was the son of the President of the School Board, an upstanding Church
going citizen.

The true fact of the matter is that it is the job of parents to instill
moral values and religious values in their children. The State has no
business teaching our kids about God. Each of us should do that
according to our own beliefs. We are, after all, a Republic, not a
Theocracy.


This seems to me like a no brainer. We need to teach our children right
from wrong and to instill our chosen religious beliefs in them. This is
not the school’s job. We have failed as parents, otherwise.

Our forefathers left Europe to find religious freedom. Our founders were
largely Deists, not Christians. We do them all a disservice and give up
a portion of the freedoms for which they fought when we ask the State to
take over our responsibilities.

JOHN ASHCROFT FLAP OVER PRAYER ... WHERE ARE WE GOING WITH THIS? - tdigirolamo Sun, May 20, 2001 at 23:46:35
YOU HAVE TO WONDER IF ANYONE NOTICES THAT THIS COUNTRY, THE COUNTRY KNOWN AS THE GREAT "MELTING POT" IS IN A SEVERE MELTDOWN. IN OUR ZEAL TO TAKE UP THE MULTICULTURALPOLITICALCORRECTNESS BANNER, WE HAVE BECOME SOMETHING NEW ... BUT DOING SOMETHING OLD LIKE PRAYING BEFORE YOU START YOUR DAY EVEN WITH SOME OF THOSE WHO WORK WITH YOU, MARCH WITH YOU, AND LEARN FROM YOU ... THAT THIS CAN BE CONSIDERED THE ESTABLISHMENT OF A CHURCH IS AN INCREDULOUS NOTION AND A STRETCH. ALSO IT IS EVERY MAN OR WOMAN'S RIGHT TO DO SO ANYWHERE, ANYTIME THEY SEE THE NEED TO DO SO. AND NO ONE CAN ABRIDGE OR TAKE THAT FREEDOM FROM ONE. THAT IS WHY AMERICAN'S HAVE FOUGHT, SHED BLOOD, AND DIED FOR. WE SHOULD APPLAUD ATTORNEY GENERAL JOHN ASHCROFT FOR BEING BOLD AND COURAGEOUS AND TAKING THE HUGE TASKS HE HAS BEFORE HIM AND SEEKING GOD'S FAVOR TO GUIDE HIM. THE WORLD SHOULD FEEL SAFER NOW.
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E-MAIL CULTURE SHOCK ... CLICK FEEDBACK - tdigirolamo Thu, May 17, 2001 at 13:48:31
DISNEY'S WABC RADIO CAVING ON DR LAURA - tdigirolamo Tue, May 15, 2001 at 10:18:21
ANOTHER CASUALTY OF OUR CULTURE ... DR. LAURA AND HER RADIO SHOW MOVING TO 11 PM ... SIBERIA IN TALK RADIO. NOTHING GAY HERE.AND THE TIMES THEY ARE CHANGIN' ... GIVES NEW MEANING TO THAT SONG.

SURPRISE, SURPRISE, SURPRISE, NOT ... ALAN MEDINGER - tdigirolamo Mon, May 14, 2001 at 18:35:53
Ex-Gay Leader Say Spitzer Study is no Surprise

Controversial study says homosexuals can change orientation

Baltimore, Maryland (May 11) – Homosexuals can change their orientation. That is the finding of a new study by researcher Robert Spitzer. He is one of the people responsible for removing homosexuality as a disorder from the American Psychological Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual.

Despite Spitzer's findings – based on a study of 200 subjects (143 men and 57 women), homosexual advocacy groups are attacking the study. Alan Medinger, the director of Regeneration Ministries and author of Growth into Manhood (Shaw/WaterBrook), says the Spitzer study verifies what ex-gay ministries have been saying all along. "Thousands of people are set free from homosexuality just as they are from other harmful behaviors," says Medinger.

"Like most psychiatrists I thought homosexual behavior could be resisted, but sexual orientation could not be changed. I now believe that is untrue," says Spitzer. Medinger found freedom from homosexuality twenty-five years ago and is married with three children. "The gay community has worked hard to make us think homosexuality is genetic. This study provides conclusive evidence that homosexual behavior is changeable."

At the core of homosexual change is the reexamining of childhood and family experiences, same sex mentoring relationships, and spiritual transformation. In Medinger's book he examines the link between troubled father-son relationships and gender confusion. "Homosexual males who decide to leave homosexuality may not know how to restart the masculine development process." Those in troubled father-son relationships have few cultural cues against seeking male affirmation in homosexual relationships," says Medinger.

In interviews with subjects in the Spitzer study, 67-percent of the males rarely or never experienced opposite sex attraction before the change process. Yet, many of the subjects in the study are now married – many with children. He says they now have "good heterosexual functioning." Medinger, a graduate of Johns Hopkins University, specializes in helping men and women overcome homosexuality.

To schedule an interview with Alan Medinger call Susan or Cheryl at 800/858-9388
E-MAIL CULTURE SHOCK FEEDBACK BAR BELOW ... WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU - tdigirolamo Sun, May 13, 2001 at 16:10:01
WE WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT THE ISSUES CONCERNING OUR CULTURE.WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT PSYCHOLOGY? HOW HAS IT AFFECTED YOUR WORLD?
PSYCHOLOGY COVERING ITS TRACKS ... THE BEAT GOES ON - tdigirolamo Sun, May 13, 2001 at 12:27:16
FROM TIME TO TIME WE AT CULTURE SHOCK HAVE FOCUSED ON THE FAILURES THAT PSYCHOLOGY HAS WROUGHT ON THE WORLD.
AND NOW ONE MORE MAJOR EVENT THAT CHANGED OUR PEOPLE AND OUR CULTURE FOR DECADES.
ALL OVER THE NEWS MEDIA WE ARE HEARING THE STORY THAT HOMOSEXUALS CAN CHANGE THEIR SEXUAL ORIENTATION, THE STUDY BY ROBERT SPITZER ... BUT WE ARE NOT HEARING THAT THE MAN AND THIS NEW STUDY WAS THE MAN IN 1973, WHO PLAYED A KEY ROLE IN GETTING THE AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION TO END REPARATIVE THERAPY TO CHANGE HOMOSEXUALS.
Remember recovered memory and searching the past, that is now False Memory.
Remember when they told us to vent our anger ... now they tell us no, we need to manage the anger. This has created an industry of anger managers.
William R. Coulson, psychologist, and one of the founders of the self-esteem movement, told us on Culture Shock that the Columbine shooters got A's in Anger Management!
Dr. Paul McHugh, Chief of Psychiatric Department at Johns Hopkins University Medical School, whose special expertise includes critical analysis of multiple personality and false memory phenomena. On 60 Minutes Dr.McHugh stated to Mike Wallace: “ The damage that...multiple personality disorder... did is becoming evident. The approach, the ideas, are waning. It’s gonna be like the Hula Hoop. It’ll be gone."

Where is the apology that all this science gone wrong has created. All of this in the last 40 years. We should be doing research on the last 100 years and Sigmund Freud's dream of putting an end to the church and faith in God. Any questions?

THE MAN WHO SAID HOMOSEXUALS CANNOT ... NOW SAYS THEY CAN - tdigirolamo Sun, May 13, 2001 at 10:57:30
Prominent Psychiatrist Announces
New Study Results: "Some Gays Can Change"

"Like most psychiatrists," says Dr. Robert Spitzer, "I thought that homosexual behavior could be resisted, but sexual orientation could not be changed. I now believe that's untrue--some people can and do change."
Most mental-health professional associations have recently issued warnings about therapy to change sexual orientation. Homosexual fantasies and feelings can be renounced or resisted, clinicians tend to agree --but not transformed.
But in a new study announced May 9, 2001 at the annual meeting of the American Psychiatric Association, Columbia University's Dr. Robert L. Spitzer released the evidence for his conclusions in an historic panel discussion.
He interviewed 200 subjects (143 men and 57 women) who were willing to describe sexual and emotional histories, including their self-reported shift from homosexual to heterosexual.
Dr. Spitzer is currently Chief of Biometrics Research and Professor of Psychiatry at Columbia University. But he is better known for his scientific role in 1973--when he was "the" instrumental figure in the American Psychiatric Association's decision to remove homosexuality from its diagnostic manual of mental disorders.
But on the opening day of the American Psychiatric Association's annual conference two years ago, he was drawn to a group of ex-gays staging a demonstration at the entrance to the conference building.
The picketers were objecting to the A.P.A.'s recent resolution discouraging therapy to change homosexuality to heterosexuality. They carried placards saying, "Homosexuals Can Change---We Did---Ask Us!" Others said, "Don't Affirm Me into a Lifestyle that was Killing Me Physically and Spiritually," and "The APA Has Betrayed America with Politically Correct Science."
Some of the psychiatrists tore up the literature handed out to them by the protesters. But others stopped to offer the protestors a few quiet words of encouragement.
Dr. Spitzer decided to find out for himself if homosexuality might be changeable. He developed a 45-minute telephone interview which he personally admistered to all the subjects. Most had been referred to him by The National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), and by Exodus, a ministry for homosexual strugglers. To be eligible for the study, the subjects had to experience a significant shift from homosexual to heterosexual attraction which had lasted for at least five years.
Most of the subjects said their religious faith was very important in their lives, and about three-quarters of the men and half of the women had been heterosexually married by the time of the study. Most had sought change because a gay lifestyle had been emotionally unsatisfying. Many had been disturbed by promiscuity, stormy relationships, a conflict with their religious values, and the desire to be (or to stay) heterosexually married.
Typically, the effort to change did not produce significant results for the first two years. Subjects said they were helped by examining their family and childhood experiences, and understanding how those factors might have contributed to their gender identity and sexual orientation. Same-sex mentoring relationships, behavior-therapy techniques and group therapy were also mentioned as particularly helpful.
To the researchers' surprise, good heterosexual functioning was reportedly achieved by 67% of the men who had rarely or never felt any opposite-sex attraction before the change process. Nearly all the subjects said they now feel more masculine (in the case of men) or more feminine (women).
What, then, was Dr. Spitzer's conclusion? "Contrary to conventional wisdom," he says, "some highly motivated individuals, using a variety of change efforts, can make substantial change in multiple indicators of sexual orientation, and achieve good heterosexual functioning."
He added that change from homosexual to heterosexual is not usually a matter of "either/or," but exists on a continuum--that is, a diminishing of homosexuality and an expansion of heterosexual potential that is exhibited in widely varying degrees.
But, Dr. Spitzer said, his findings suggest that complete change--cessation of all homosexual fantasies and attractions (which is generally considered an unrealistic goal in most therapies) is probably uncommon. Still, when subjects did not actually change sexual orientation--for example, their change had been one of behavioral control and self-identity, but no significant shift in attractions--they still reported an improvement in overall emotional health and functioning.
This study is believed to be the most detailed investigation of sexual orientation change to date, in that it assessed a variety of homosexual indicators. Previous studies have usually assessed only one or two dimensions of sexual orientation, such as behavior and attraction. The assessment tool was developed with the assistance of Dr. Richard C. Friedman.
Dr. Spitzer used a structured interview so that others could know exactly what questions were asked, and what response choices were offered to the subjects. The full data file is now available to other researchers, including tape-recordings of about a third of the interviews, which (with the subjects' permission and without any reference to their names) can be listened to by investigators who wish to carry such research further.
He also expressed his gratitude to the National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), and to the ex-gay ministry Exodus, "without which this study would not have been possible."
In closing, he cautioned that this study should not be used to justify coercive treatment, or as a basis for the denial of civil rights. "But I believe patients should indeed have the right," he concluded, "to explore their heterosexual potential."

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MOTHER'S DAY BANNED ... A CULTURE SHOCK MOMENT - tdigirolamo Tue, May 8, 2001 at 15:07:06
A PRIVATE SCHOOL IN NEW YORK CITY, RODEPH SHOLOM DAY SCHOOL, SAYS IT WILL NO LONGER CELEBRATE MOTHER'S DAY OR FATHER'S DAY. THIS AFTER A HOMOSEXUAL COMPLAINED THAT IT HURT THE FEELINGS OF THE CHILDREN FROM HOMOSEXUAL PARTNERS, OF WHICH HE IS A PARENT OF AN ADOPTED CHILD.
The following e-mail came to Culture Shock from Hank Honig, media executive.

I actually heard this on the news this morning, but the broadcast story
didn't go into depth, i.e. the issue of political correctness.

Now, as you know, we deeply disagree about the issue of Gay rights.
However, when one takes something trivial and turns it into a major
issue, then that issue trivializes the important goals of any movement.
Consequently, if people want to be taken seriously as regards the issues
of employment and hate crimes, they need to stop worrying about whether
or not some kid will be psychologically harmed because he has two mommies
or two daddies when the kids from traditional families celebrate either
Mothers' Day or Fathers' day.

So, while we are of the same opinion on the fact that this is a totally
stupid stance for anyone to be taking, our reasons may differ.

This place is only 2 blocks from my house. Even though I live in one of
the most liberal neighborhoods in NYC, this goes too far even for me.


Hank



E-MAIL CULTURE SHOCK ... JOIN THE DEBATE - tdigirolamo Tue, May 1, 2001 at 07:37:09
DOES THE MEDIA INFLUENCE OUR KIDS ... ASK COCA COLA DON'T ASK THE PRODUCER OF - tdigirolamo Wed, Apr 25, 2001 at 16:18:45
FROM WLWT TV AND ITS WEBSITE channelcincinnati.com

Teen Hit In 'Jackass' Case Could Be Charged Boy Treated For Broken Leg, Ankle
INDEPENDENCE, Ky., 3:07 p.m. EDT April 25, 2001 --
More charges could be filed in connection with a stunt -- reportedly inspired by the MTV show "Jackass" that went awry and seriously injured a Tri-State teen.
Watch video of the teens trying to perform a stunt for the TV show Jackass. One Teen Remains Hospitalized Two Northern Kentucky teenage boys have been charged so far, and several others including one who was run down by a car could be charged as well, WLWT Eyewitness News 5 reported.
In the stunt, one teen raced a car at a friend who was standing in the middle of a road. The boy in the path of the car was supposed to jump up and over the car at the last second, according to Independence police officials.
However, the boy did not move in time, and the car slammed into him.

Video cameras inside the car and on the side of the road captured footage of the teen's body bouncing off of the hood and over the top of the car.
The boy who was hit suffered a broken right leg and left ankle, cuts and bruises and minor internal injuries. He is being treated St. Elizabeth South Hospital, WLWT Eyewitness News 5 reported. Two teens who were in the car, ages 16 and 17, have been charged with wanton endangerment, which is a felony. Their names have not been released. The boy who was hit could be facing charges as well, Kenton County Prosecutor Garry Edmonson said.
SURVEY:Who Should Be Blamed? "He's just as much a part of this entire act as the other two that have already been charged," Edmonson said.
Police reports indicate that the boys had hoped to use the tape to make an appearance on MTV's "Jackass," a show infamous for its outlandish and often dangerous stunts.
Independence police investigators estimate that the car was going 30 to 40 mph when it hit the teen.
"None of us in this room would do something so crazy," Sgt. Anthony Lucas said. "But they're kids and they think they're superhuman and they're encouraged by the very nature of this program and the way it's presented to them."
MTV issues disclaimers during all broadcasts of "Jackass," and the network does not accept tapes submitted from its viewers, according to MTV's Web site.

Edmonson believes that MTV is not doing enough to prevent stunts inspired by "Jackass."
"We know now from experiences around the country that their warning isn't sufficient," he said. "Certainly, they are morally culpable. Whether or not they are legally culpable is something that we are going to continue to look at.
5TH GRADERS SEX FOR SODA ... THE CLINTON LEGACY TO OUR YOUTH - tdigirolamo Wed, Apr 25, 2001 at 15:19:28
THIS STORY IS FROM WLWT TV AND ITS WEBSITE ... ChannelCincinnati.com  

Saturday April 07 02:05 AM EDT

Girl: Fifth-Graders Swapped Sex For Soda

The principle of Mount Airy School sent a letter home to parents Friday regarding the allegations that a fifth-grade class was swapping sex for soda money and other favors.

WLWT Eyewitness News5's Brian Hamrick reports that male students in a fifth-grade class were allegedly trading their soda money for sex with other fifth-graders. Dozens of students were allegedly using closets to conceal the sexual activity.
A fifth-grade girl brought the allegations to the attention of adults earlier in the week, and the school is taking the accusations "very seriously," though nothing is substantiated yet. The school is investigating, and so are Cincinnati police.
"At this point, it's merely allegations," Cincinnati School District attorney John Concannon said. "If we thought there was absolutely no truth, we wouldn't even be looking into it. There may be, so we're checking, but we have not confirmed it with anyone as of now."
Extra adults have been put on duty at the school to supervise activities. Investigators will continue to work on the case next week, which is spring break for the children.
CAREERS AND LIVES TURNED UPSIDE DOWN - tdigirolamo Wed, Apr 25, 2001 at 01:24:10
THERE IS MORE TO THIS STORY YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ THAN CAREERS IN TELEVISION. IT SPEAKS VOLUMES TO THE CHANGES THAT HAVE COME TO THE WORK PLACE ... HOW IT HAS AFFECTED NOT ONLY A CAREER, BUT MARRIED LIFE, AND EVEN THE BREAK UP OF THE FAMILY.READING BETWEEN THE LINES IS WHAT CAUSED US TO POST THIS AT CULTURE SHOCK.

FROM THE TV RUNDOWN
TV Careers:
An Anchor Leaves


Here is a note we recieved from former television anchor Bob Lasher.  It is reprinted with his permission.
To: standish@tvrundown.com
From:  Bob Lasher
Subject: Salaries

Salaries for those starting in TV News are often below $12K/year.
Across the board salaries are plummeting due to the massive proliferation of broadcast and cable news organizations.
15-20 years ago there were only the 3 networks and their affiliates,
which meant all of the medium’s advertising dollars were split only 3
ways. It was much easier to support big salaries and experiences
staffers.
Now, look around, you see more and more young faces and the
experienced and accomplished anchors are scattered over a multitude of
cable and broadcast outlets because organizations can no longer pay to
keep several high priced and high profile anchors/reporters on staff.

Young reporters and anchors are willing to make less, aren’t usually
married and rarely have families to support, so they are the preferred
hires.
That is why the industry, as recently discussed in "Shoptalk" (See Don Fitzpatrick's interview with The Rundown),  is suffering a big drop in male anchors in their 30’s.
Others, like me,  realized that if they are to have a future, family and retirement,
they’d better get a job that will allow them to make some money.
Two  years ago I was a lead anchor in a mid 120’s market making $30K a
year... and I was one of the highest paid anchors in the market...
period. When I left I had offers from both competitors and neither
could even match that salary... and that’s with 8 years experience!
When I began in 1991 all three stations in the market had experienced
anchors in their 30’s, now all of them have gone to much younger, less
experienced and cheaper talent.
Lastly, and most sadly, looks come first. You can be an award
winning writer and reporter, but the vast majority of the time the first
and most important thing News Directors and producers look for is your
face. I’ve seen them go through stacks of tapes popping one in, looking
for a few seconds and then throwing it away because they didn’t like the
look.
Television news is now at least as much show business, if not
more, than journalism. The industry is littered with stories of
extremely talented, intelligent writers/reporters/anchors who were
passed over for young good looking hires who think grammar is an award
given to popular music artists.

FROM THE TV RUNDOWN 
January 28, 1999
Copyright 1999, Standish Publishing Company.
WHAT BEARS REPEATING HERE, BOB LASHER SAID, "Young reporters and anchors are willing to make less, aren’t usually
married and rarely have families to support, so they are the preferred
hires."
MANY PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN IN A PARTICULAR CAREER FOR TWENTY OR THIRTY YEARS, BUILT EXPERIENCE, RAISED FAMILIES, FIND THEMSELVES AND THERE LIVES TURNED UPSIDE DOWN.This is not just a story about the television industry dealing with this difficulty, but working conditions as a whole.
Bob Lasher hopefully was only in his thirties when he was forced to leave his career. What do you do if your fifty two.
SPIELBERG - tdigirolamo Tue, Apr 17, 2001 at 16:49:50
FILM DIRECTOR/ EAGLE SCOUT STEVEN SPIELBERG HAS LEFT HIS POSITION ON THE ADVISORY BOARD OF THE BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA. "THE LAST FEW YEARS IN SCOUTING HAVE DEEPLY SADDENED ME TO SEE THE BOYSCOUTS OF AMERICA ACTIVELY AND PUBLICLY PARTICIPATING IN DISCRIMINATION. IT'S A REAL SHAME," Said he.
The "reel" shame is the entertainment world has come to disregaurd the law given by the Supreme Court of the United States. Freedom of association and the right to exercise it.
The Culture Shock for those who are trying to change tradition handed down with religious moral foundation are going to find conflict.The battle lines are drawn and the Barbra's and Ed Asner's and Ted Danzan's, and Martin Sheen's have made it known, they are getting ready for it. Barbra is even thinking of buying CNN so like the USSR and China she can get the word out. Wait a minute, CNN already does that, and the networks, well, we know where they stand. Thank you Dan! Hop on the bus Gus!
These are the kind of stories that are going to bedevil us for decades. This is not going to end soon.The confusion that all this conflict brings will only find us bewildered and all the more divided.
Don't you wish Steven Spielberg would just produce and direct ... Oh for the days when we loved to hear Barbra sing, "People" ... We were the luckiest people in the world, when she was just singing.
IT'S NOT TV ... WELL, WHAT IS IT?!!! - tdigirolamo Mon, Apr 16, 2001 at 01:28:01
It's as simple as ABC, the networks are in competition with the HBO's since the beginning of Cable TV. Conservatives, and particularly Republican Administrations, have been a thorn in the side of the networks agenda. That is, to continue the language, violence and nudity to all of the television industry without rules.
The Clinton Administration, cozy and unwilling to speak against the Hollywoodnewyorkliberal mindset, gave us a Presidency that has polluted and twisted the minds of young people world wide. The Robin Williams crowd at the biggest record breaking fund raiser for Democrats yet, is about to bury, Judeo- Christian ethic, with their money, there idea of art, and the words like ____, ______, ______, _____ , ______, _____, and______. That's right, remember the George Carlin (Lenny Bruce type) comedy on HBO in the 80's, "The Seven Words You Can't Say On TV," welcome to the new freedom, the new Culture, given to us unleashed and without rules.
From the entertainment the networks produce, to the news, all of it, welcome those, and only those, who embrace their agenda. HBO say's "It's Not TV" well, that's why they can say those words, and embrace the porn, so easily. The images we will see going over that bridge into the 21st century, will be the legacy we as a people, who let it happen, will surely regret. What this generation does in moderation the next will do in ... God help us!
YOUR CHEATING HEART WILL TELL ON YOU ... STORY BY CHARLES COLSON - tdigirolamo Mon, Apr 16, 2001 at 00:16:04
BreakPoint with Charles Colson
Commentary #000609 - 6/9/2000
Cheating Lessons: Are We Rearing Moral Dunces?


Potomac, Maryland, is known for its multimillion-
dollar estates and highly-ranked elementary school --
considered one of the best in the country.

But a few days ago, Potomac became known for
something else: One of the worst cheating scandals in
recent memory. Only, it wasn't the students who were
cheating: It was a teacher and the school's
principal.

The whole sordid story exposes how in secular America
we've lost the basis for ethics.

It turns out that when students took a state
achievement test last month, a fifth-grade teacher
and the school's principal pointed out wrong answers
and urged kids to "try again." The students were
given far longer to complete the tests than the rules
allowed. Some were even called back later and told to
change their answers.

Parents were outraged when they found out. As one
parent put it, for kids "to see their principal and
teachers helping them [cheat] . . sends a horrible
message."

The students were getting a moral education, all
right, but the wrong kind. But who's surprised?
Instead of teaching kids what constitutes good
character, many teachers today are encouraging kids
to discover their own values. It's the dangerous idea
that all values are equal. In fact, the only time the
curriculum is directive is when it involves trendy
causes like environmentalism or feminism.

What educators don't seem to understand is that
virtue is not a matter of social causes. It's a
matter of the soul, and that's where moral education
has to begin.

The point was beautifully illustrated a few years ago
in a story told by philosophy professor Christina
Hoff Sommers. Sommers had published an article urging
ethics teachers to focus as much on private virtue as
they do on public ethics -- to teach things like
personal honesty, decency, and responsibility.

One of Sommers's colleagues, an ethics professor,
scoffed at this argument: "You're not going to have
moral people," the colleague insisted, "until you
have moral institutions." And she told Sommers that
she planned to continue talking about social issues
like women's rights, gay rights, and protecting the
rain forests.

By the end of the semester, however, Sommers'
colleague was singing a different tune. To her shock,
more than half the students in her ethics course had
cheated on a take-home exam. Sheepishly, she told
Sommers, "I'd like to borrow a copy of that article
you wrote on ethics without virtue."

This professor learned the hard way that we can deal
with the moral malaise in American life only when we
begin to cultivate personal virtue.

That's a lesson that some of the kids in Potomac
appear to have learned already. After taking their
tests, they had the moral maturity to tell their
parents that their teacher and principal had asked
them to cheat. It seems their parents had taught them
that cheating is wrong. Well, good for them!

Plato said that order in society depends on the order
in the individual human soul. When even school
principals can't tell right from wrong, maybe it's
time to bring that ancient dictum back.

For the best way to avoid rearing a generation of
moral dunces is to teach our kids -- and their teachers
-- that there are absolute standards of right and wrong.
And cheating is always wrong, no matter who tells you
to do it.
DR SPOCK IT'S OVER ... PARENTS GET TOUGH WITH RESULTS BY DWIGHT BAIN - tdigirolamo Tue, Apr 10, 2001 at 00:48:09
Parents, get tough with the rules to help your child

Editorial by Dwight Bain, Co-host of Culture Shock TV


Building a child's self esteem is a huge goal for many parents. Yet it may shock you to know that some of the classic things that you may have thought would help your child to become successful in life may actually set them up to fail. Young people that receive this type of flawed psychological based parenting may be headed into a life of misery. Drugs, alcoholism, and broken relationships may be the end result of too much psychology in the parenting arena.

It has often been thought, and even taught by some psychologists that spending short periods of "quality time" with a child, loving and unconditionally accepting them would be enough to create a responsible and successful adult. This kind and playful behavior is to be given with little or no negative redirection, discipline or correction. Parents were taught to be a child's friend and playmate, say "yes" often and never to say or do anything that might harm the feelings of the child, or make them feel sad. Once you have helped a child to feel good about themselves, you can then back out of the time spent in the parenting role and allow the child to make the decisions that they think are best. You and the child end up being "buddies" that would never condemn one another, but rather accept each other's behavior as okay, since it is what you or the child want to do. I have actually been in training sessions where this type of parenting was presented as the optimal environment for building healthy children. Love them, coddle them, but never be too hard or firm with them. Be their friend, not a mean mother or father figure. Let them find their own way, and trust their judgment, not yours as the parent.

Now a new study has shown that this type of parenting leaves a youth more vulnerable and weakened to say "no" to the pressures of drugs alcohol and tobacco addiction. The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse recently produced a report, financed by the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation and the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration which showed a clear correlation between firm, direct parenting and the distant non-confrontational style of parenting.

Teenagers that came from homes with firm guidelines, clear standards of right and wrong and involved parents who asked tough questions were far less likely to abuse drugs, alcohol or tobacco. Edward Jurith, acting drug policy adviser to President Bush, commended the study in a written statement, "Youth tell us that their parents can empower them to make healthy decisions about drugs, Parents' words and actions are more effective than they may think in keeping their children away from drugs".

The most effective style of parenting for prevention of substance abuse were the ones who were not afraid to question their teenaged sons and daughters about music, usage of the Internet, and television, as well as boldly say "no" as needed. As old-fashioned as this may sound, the young people from the homes with firm limits, were better equipped to avoid these dangers. The indirect and non-limit setting group of parents seemed to have the opposite effect on their children.

Here are the indicators used to identify the involved "strict" parenting style which prevented young people from the high risk behavior associated with abusing tobacco, alcohol or illegal drugs:

* Parents expect to be told where teen is going in the evening or on weekends and is told the truth by the teen.

* Parents have made clear they would be "extremely upset" to find teen using marijuana.

* There are not periods of time after school or on weekends when parents do not know where teen is located.

* Parents monitor what teen is watching on television.

* Parents impose restrictions on the kind of music the teen is allowed to buy.

* Parents are very aware of how teen is doing in school.

* Parents monitor teen's Internet usage.

* Family typically has dinner together seven nights a week.

* Teen has a weekend curfew.

* An adult is always at home when teen returns from school.

* Teen is responsible for completing regular chores.

* The television is not on during dinner.

As old-fashioned as this type of parenting may sound, the children from homes with a Mom and dad that set and enforce boundaries are better equipped to face the pressures of life because someone loved them by saying the word that might very well save their life one day. "No." When a child learns to respond to "no" as a normal part of life, and to trust that some things are not in their best interest, they have one of the greatest character qualities of a successful individual. Self-discipline. Setting firm limits for your children and loving them by strictly enforcing those limits is the pathway to a successful young adult. Loving firmness from an involved parent beats untested psychological theories from a textbook every time.
E-MAIL CULTURE SHOCK ... JOIN US IN THE DEBATE. PLEASE DO SO BY CLICKING ON FEEDBACK BELOW. - tdigirolamo Fri, Apr 6, 2001 at 12:35:37
THE ACLU VS.THE INNOCENCE OF AMERICA'S CHILDREN BY DONNA RICE HUGHES - tdigirolamo Wed, Apr 4, 2001 at 18:30:10
I believe that children should be able to use the Internet without the risk of being exposed to pornography or sexual predators. I believe that a child should be able to do an innocent word search on "toys", without being deceptively routed to a site with free porn pictures. I believe that disquised porn sites such as whitehouse.com and boys.com should not exist.

I believe that a student should be able to use the Internet to find information on wolves for a school report without being exposed to a picture of a woman having sex with a wolf. I believe that library patrons should not be exposed to others viewing or masterbating to online pornography in tax-payer funded libraries.

But what I believe should be, is not the reality of the Internet. Instead, any child with unrestricted Internet access is in danger of being exposed to pornography. The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's survey last year showed that 1 in 4 children accidentally accessed online pornography in the past year.

Filtering technology is a tool of prevention along with safety rules… both are a necessary line of defense in the current Internet environment.

At the COPA Commission hearings last summer, we heard testimony from teachers and librarians as to the effectiveness of filters. In fact, the COPA Commission unanimously found that filtering technology was "highly effective" in shielding children from harmful to minors material.

I have been a supporter of the Children's Internet Protection Act since its early inception. Congressional intervention is necessary to prevent Internet access in our schools and libraries from being federally-funded porn outlets.

But, as anticipated….the ACLU opposes these measures.

Let's not forget that, by their own stated policy - ACLU Policy # 4 - the ACLU opposes on First Amendment grounds (1) "Laws which punish the distribution or exposure of such material to minors" (i.e., obscenity, pornography or indecency) and (2) "laws that restrict the production and distribution of any printed and visual materials even when some of the producers of those materials ( i.e, child pornography) are punishable under criminal law". The ACLU does not accept any form of filtering because they believe it's unconstitutional to prevent the distribution of pornography to anyone…. including children. Let's face it, these are not mainstream views!

The ACLU vs. Ashcroft? Let's just call it what it is, The ACLU vs. the Innocence of America's children.

Statement by Donna Rice Hughes at Children's Internet Protection Act Press Conference on Capitol Hill, March 20, 2001. Donna is an Internet safety expert; author of Kids Online: Protecting Your Children In Cyberspace; FamilyClick.com spokesperson and COPA Commissioner (1999-2000)
GET OVER IT WE NEED EACH OTHER BY CLARK SANTEE - tdigirolamo Wed, Apr 4, 2001 at 14:18:17
YA CAN'T HAVE ONE... YA CAN'T HAVE NONE... YA CAN'T HAVE ONE
WITHOUT THE OOOOOTHERRRR

Frank Sinatra - 1954

The Webster definition of a liberal is: A person who embraces many
points of view. The same dictionary defines a conservative as: A
person opposed to change. From those definitions it is not surprising
to discover that throughout history almost every significant social
advancement in our civilization has been generated by liberal thinking.
Slavery, witch burning, Royal privilege, and countless other everyday
realities of one age or another all came to an end as a result of
liberal activity, while at the same time every such advancement was
vehemently fought against by the conservative power base of the time. It
is interesting to note, however, that once these battle tested freedoms
settled into the mainstream, it was the conservatives who become their
champions. For instance, in America the right to vote, bear arms, and
the right to a fair trial for all, are today backbones in conservative
belief, but when liberals first fought for these rights back in the 16th
century, conservatives did everything in their power to defeat them.

Early this century it was the woman's right to vote that conservatives
fought with such zeal. The battle of our generation has been civil
rights, a liberal issue so repugnant to conservatives that overnight the
entire south switched from the Democratic to the Republican parties. In
another generation or so, racial equality is destined to become a minor
conservative issue, with its importance no more important than the
appropriateness of wearing blue jeans in school. Today's most vocal
liberal causes, a woman's right to terminate a pregnancy and the rights
of gay citizens, are intolerable to conservatives and combated by them on
every front. In the not too distant future these two issues will be as
inconsequential to them as questions about the right of non-royalty to
own land.

So if liberals are the clarions for the advancement of society, why is
there so much support for a point of view that advocates the contrary?
The reason is, liberals are reckless and make a number of mistakes. As
the champions of change they can become so righteous about the
correctness of their ideas that too often they stubbornly march off in
inappropriate directions. Communism was one of he worst of such well
meaning liberal ideas. Second, so convinced are liberals of their good
and noble intentions, they lose sight of how in leadership it is also
important to be good and noble individuals. One expects avarice and mean
spirited conduct from conservatives, but liberals are held to a higher
standard. Bill Clinton is a classic example of the failure to meet that
standard. And finally, liberals conduct a great deal of war. Many of
the world's greatest liberals, including Alexander the Great, Marcus
Aurelius and Napoleon, spent almost every moment in power at war. War is
the ultimate extension of activism, all too often causing idealism to
degenerate into an exercise of despotism. Lyndon Johnson is this
country's latest example of a despotic warring liberal leader.

What keeps liberal mistakes, excesses and indulgences in check are the
conservatives. Incapable of looking forward, this is the only
significant role conservatives have to play in our society, but it is an
important one. They are the police ... they stick their hand out and say
to the liberals stop! It seems to be necessary in order to make sure
the changes that liberals are both workable and beneficial. If changes
such as abortion rights, gun control, a national health plan and so on,
collapse under conservative scrutiny, then no matter how deeply liberals
believe in them, or how completely they are convinced such changes would
improve our society, they have to let them go. This battle between
liberals and conservatives ... this ordeal of hard fought winning and just
as important losing ... makes America a better, stronger and more
resilient society.

So with the new Bush presidency, America once again is faced with at
least four more years of conservative leadership. As always happens
during these periods, the nation will stagnate, the economy will falter,
the environment and the health of the people will be compromised, the
rich will get richer and the poor will get poorer, and the nation's
belief in itself as a shining light in the world will dim a bit. But now
out of power, liberals no longer must devote their valuable intellectual
energy to defending the castle, and instead can and focus their
thinking on creating the America of tomorrow.

Nothing would be worse than an all liberal or all conservative America.
The first would be a society in constant flux with little spiritual or
practical ground to stand upon, while the second would be so dead and
dehumanized that it would have no future. What keeps our nation so vital
is keeping these two factions at their battle stations, constantly
checking and balancing each other's every move. This way only the best
ideas survive, hopefully resulting in the best possible America.

The liberals make the changes, but it is the conservatives that make sure
those changes are correct. In a healthy nation, Ya can't have one
without the other.

Clark Santee
Independent Producer/Director
E-MAIL CULTURE SHOCK ... CLICK FEEDBACK BELOW - tdigirolamo Wed, Apr 4, 2001 at 14:15:34
IT COULDN'T HAVE BEEN ... NAHHHH! - tdigirolamo Fri, Mar 30, 2001 at 17:14:46
THIS LETTER TO THE EDITOR FROM THE SAN ANGELO STANDARD - TIMES, WAS SO COMPELLING AND CUT TO THE TRUTH, THAT PAUL HARVEY READ IT TO THE 18 MILLION LISTNERS OF HIS ABC RADIO SHOW. IT WAS JUST AFTER THE SHOOTING AT COLUMBINE. PERHAPS WE WERE TOO CLOSE TO THE TRAGEDY WHEN THIS WAS PUBLISHED TO REALIZE ITS TRUTH, OR ARE WE JUST NOT LISTENING.

HERE NOW THE LETTER.

How can we blame it all on guns?

For the life of me, I can't understand what could have gone wrong in Littleton, Colo.
If only the parents had kept their children away from the guns, we wouldn't have had such a tragedy. Yeah, it must have been the guns.
It couldn't have been because of half our children being raised in broken homes.
It couldn't have been because our children get to spend an average of 30 seconds in meaningful conversation with their parents each day. After
all, we give our children quality time. It couldn't have been because we treat our children as pets and our pets as children.
It couldn't have been because we place our children in day care centers where they learn their socialization skills among their peers under the law of the jungle while employees who have no vested interest in the children look on and make sure that no blood is spilled. (!!!)
It couldn't have been because we allow our children to watch, on average, seven hours of television a day filled with the glorification of sex and violence that isn't fit for adult consumption.
It couldn't have been because we allow our children to enter into virtual
worlds in which, to win the game, one must kill as many opponents as
possible in the most sadistic way possible.
It couldn't have been because we have sterilized and contracepted our
families down to sizes so small that the children we do have are so
spoiled with material things that they come to equate the receiving of
the material with love.
It couldn't have been because our children, who historically have been
seen as a blessing from God, are now being viewed as either a mistake
created when contraception fails or inconveniences that parents try to
raise in their spare time.
It couldn't have been because our nation is the world leader in developing
a culture of death in which 20 million to 30 million babies have been killed by abortion.
It couldn't have been because we give two-year prison sentences to
teen-agers who kill their newborns.
It couldn't have been because our school systems teach the children that they are nothing but glorified apes who have evolutionized out of some primordial soup of mud by teaching evolution as fact and by handing out condoms as if they were candy.
It couldn't have been because we teach our children that there are no
laws of morality that transcend us, that everything is relative and that actions don't have consequences. What the heck, the president gets away
with it.
Nah, it must have been the guns.

Addison L. Dawson
San Angelo, Texas 4/27/99

A letter to the Editor of the San Angelo Standard - Times
ROGERS, MASLOW, AND COULSON CHANGED THE WORLD - tdigirolamo Wed, Mar 28, 2001 at 12:33:55
Psychologist William R Coulson has given much of his life apologizing for what he and his colleagues have done. Our culture's state of mind has been shaped,
in part, by their influence. This article that follows tells the story of his work years ago.



San Francisco Faith, Eric Reslock (editor of the newspaper) and the headline is "A Diabolical Enterprise: Maslow Was the
Culprit."
Two and a half years ago, George Neumayr, then editor of the Faith,
interviewed William Coulson about his work during the 1960s with Carl
Rogers. The two were among many modern humanistic psychologists who
were invited into seminaries and convents across the United States in
the wake of Vatican II. The council inspired the American Church to
teach to its seminarians the latest ideas in modern psychology.
But to their later regret, Coulson and Rogers found their legacy as
humanistic psychologists to be the dismantling of many convents and
seminaries throughout California and elsewhere.
By the mid-’70’s, both Rogers and Coulson had retracted their beliefs.
But Coulson still believes that their ideas, and the ideas of Abraham
Maslow, in particular, sowed the seeds for the moral crisis in religious
life that is clearly evident today.
After receiving several queries in the past year about the November 1997
article, I called Coulson and asked him if anything had occurred during
the interlude that has caused him to reflect back on his time as a
teacher and lecturer to Catholic religious.
The passing of time has brought to Coulson a new perspective on the
events 30 years ago. For one, Coulson regrets that his colleague, Carl
Rogers, inspired the psychological term ‘Rogerian’. “Carl never intended
to start his own school of thought. He never liked the term,” Coulson
said.
But the passing of time also caused Coulson to search out his own
answers to what went wrong with the Catholic Church in America in the
late ’60s and ’70s. His research has led him to believe that, more than
the work of Carl Rogers, the influence of psychologist Abraham Maslow on
the American Church is under-acknowledged and not well understood.
This was partly confirmed when Coulson examined the journals of Maslow,
not released to the public until 1979, which show the diabolical nature
of his enterprise, and the contempt he expressed for religious people,
some of whom swallowed his ideas, ironically, with little resistance.
A. H. Maslow is the name most often linked with Carl Rogers’ as founder
of the Third Force in psychology, the humanistic alternative to
psychoanalysis and behaviorism. Maslow put his and his colleague’s
status this way in a note recorded ten months before his death in 1970:
The real “seers and creators” of the “unnoticed revolution” in
psychology are few — “it’s really only me and Rogers among the living.”
But, according to Coulson, Carl Rogers hadn’t set out to become a
revolutionary. He was a psychotherapist whose approach “helping
relationships” got applied to other fields, originally against his
wishes. Coulson said, “Maslow was always the revolutionary, always:
leading the way in applying clinical techniques where the creator had
insisted they didn’t belong.”
Coulson continued, “Taking off from Rogers’ early recommendation of
‘nondirectiveness’ — but only in the clinic — Maslow said life itself
would benefit. He even told a Life magazine reporter, ‘We have to teach
everyone to be a therapist.’”
In a paper written for educators in 1958, Maslow offered the opinion
that the average child knows “better than anyone else what is good for
him” and therefore doesn’t need to be told what to do; the child ought
to be treated “permissively,” to make it possible, that is, “to gratify
his needs and to make his own choices — let him be.”
Maslow went even farther in 1965, working a radical idea about
children-and-sex into his book on he psychology of management:
[I]t always struck me as a very wise kind of thing that the lower-class
Negroes did, as reported in one study, in Cleveland, Ohio. Among those
Negroes the sexual life began at puberty. It was the custom for an
older brother to get a friend in his own age grade to break in his
little sister sexually when she came of a suitable age. And the same
thing was done on the girl’s side. A girl who had a younger brother
coming into puberty would seek among her own girl friends for one who
would take on the job of initiating the young boy into sex in a nice
way. This seems extremely sensible and wise and could also serve highly
therapeutic purposes in various other ways as well. I remember talking
with Alfred Adler about this in a kind of joking way, but then we both
got quite serious about it, and Adler thought that this sexual therapy
at various ages was certainly a very fine thing. As we both played with
the thought, we envisaged a kind of social worker, in both sexes, who
was very well trained for this sort of thing, sexually, but primarily as
a psychotherapist in giving therapy literally on the couch, that is, for
mixing in the beautiful and gentle sexual initiation with all the goals
of psychotherapy.
I suppose that for these days this is a wild thought, but … there’s no
reason why it shouldn’t be taken quite seriously, especially for
youngsters and maybe also for the very old people. I guess what I’m
trying to say here is that these interpersonal therapeutic
growth-fostering relationships of all kinds which rest on intimacy, on
honesty, on self-disclosure, on becoming sensitively aware of one’s self
— and thereby of responibility for feeding back one’s impressions of
others, etc. — that these are profoundly revolutionary devices, in the
strict sense of the word — that is, of shifting the whole direction of a
society in a more preferred direction. As a matter of fact, it might be
revolutionary in another sense if something like this were done very
widely. I think the whole culture would change within a decade and
everything in it.
But according to Coulson, when the management book was reprinted in
1998, Maslow’s “wild thought” — his naivete or idealism, if you will —
got cut, though John Wiley, the publisher, didn’t mention that any cut
had been needed. “Probably he wanted to save the author’s reputation,”
said Coulson. “But now something has to be said. Too much damage has
been done, not least among Catholics, and now even a bishop. I say that
because Maslow and Rogers came to Santa Rosa to lecture in August 1962,
when the Santa Rosa diocese was being launched, and Maslow said some
equally unfortunate things about the meaning of life. For one, he
thought therapy could replace churchgoing.” Coulson continued, “I think
some of the problems of the Diocese of Santa Rosa date from that
occasion and others like it in the seminaries, when TMP — Too Much
Psychology — came to call.”
VENTING ANGER INCREASES AGGRESSION, DAHHH! - tdigirolamo Wed, Mar 28, 2001 at 11:41:57
THE WIZARDS OF THE MIND THAT TOLD US THAT ONE MUST VENT ANGER, HAVE CREATED A GROWING INDUSTRY OF ANGER MANAGERS.THE PROBLEM IS, THESE "SCIENTIST" HAD IT ALL WRONG. NOW THEY COVER THEIR TRACKS FOR THE CHAOS THEY HAVE CREATED. THESE MANAGERS OF ANGER, GAVE THE COLUMBINE DYMANIC DUO, HARRIS AND KLEBOLD A'S IN ANGER MANAGEMENT!
WHAT FOLLOWS IS AN INCREDIBLE STUDY, RESEARCHED BY CULTURE SHOCK, ON THE FINDING OF VENTING ANGER BY THE AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION.

APA News Release - Catharsis Increases Rather Than Decreases Anger and Aggression, According to a New Study.
"APA news release details new study indicating that contrary to popular belief, venting anger through physical aggression-such as hitting a punching bag or a pillow-does not decrease one's anger."

TO A NEW STUDY

Despite Popular Myth That Venting Reduces Anger, There Is No Scientific Basis for Belief in the Catharsis Effect.

WASHINGTON - Contrary to popular belief, venting anger through physical aggression-such as hitting a punching bag or a pillow-does not decrease one's anger. In reality, such acting out only increases a person's hostility, according to new research being published in the March issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, published by the American Psychological Association.
In their study, psychologists Brad J. Bushman, Ph.D., and Angela D. Stack, of Iowa State University, and Roy F. Baumeister, Ph.D., of Case Western Reserve University sought to answer two questions. Can people be persuaded by a media message to deal with anger in a certain way? And, if people choose to attempt to vent their anger through physical aggression would they feel less anger after having done so (as the Catharsis theory suggests)? To test the first question, 360 undergraduate students were exposed to either a pro-or anti-catharsis media report. Additionally, within each group half the
students were angered and half were not. Subsequent findings showed that exposure
to a media message in support of catharsis can affect subsequent behavior. Angry people expressed the highest desire to hit a punching bag when they had been exposed to a bogus newspaper article claiming that an effective tool for handling anger was to vent it toward an inanimate object. In contrast, students who were given a newspaper article that debunked the catharsis effect were relatively disinclined to hit the punching bag.To test the second question, 700 different undergraduate students were put in a situation where they were insulted by an unseen study partner and then rank ordered a list of activities for later in the experiment including hitting a punching bag. Some students hit the punching bag, others did not. Students then engaged in a head-to-head computer competition with the same partner who had insulted them or with an innocent partner. During the computer competition, the participant was able to control the volume and duration of a blast of noise their partner would receive when they were slow to respond to a question. The purpose of combining these two activities was to test whether the act of hitting the punching bag (catharsis) would reduce the participant's anger and aggression during the second exercise.Through both tests, the findings supported the researchers' hypothesis (and the results of earlier research) that venting one's anger does not decrease hostility; but rather increases it. Angered participants who read the pro-catharsis
article wanted to hit the punching bag more than angered participants who read
the anti-catharsis article. Furthermore, participants who did hit the punching
bag were significantly more aggressive during the noise blast exercises than
those who did not hit the bag.Pro-catharsis media messages may actually generate self-defeating prophecies,
say the authors.Telling people that aggressive activity is a good way to get rid of anger led them to choose aggressive activity, but performing this
activity apparently failed to reduce anger. The messages made people seek
out aggressive release, but this initial venting then increased their subsequent
aggression toward another person.

The American Psychological Association (APA), in Washington, DC, is the largest scientific and professional organization representing psychology in the United States and is the world's largest association of psychologists. APA's membership includes more than 159,000 researchers, educators, clinicians, consultants and students. Through its divisions in 50 subfields of psychology and affiliations with 58 state, territorial and Canadian provincial associations, APA works to advance psychology as a science, as a profession and as a means of promoting human welfare.

CULTURE SHOCK SEEKS THE TRUTH ON THE MATTER OF VENTING. We now have the horror and the results of psychologists who have told us to vent, go with your feelings, let the "force" guide you, if you will, and the conseqence be damned.

Please go to the Feedback button on the orange bar below, and find out what Dr Jeff and Dwight Bain think on this matter.
LET'S OUTLAW BULLYING - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 26, 2001 at 21:53:33
THIS E-MAIL FROM RAE HOLT WAS SENT TO CULTURE SHOCK IN THE HOPE THAT WE MAY CALL ATTENTION TO THIS STORY WHICH IS AN OFFSHOOT OF THE COLUMBINE TRAGEDY.

SHE BEGINS ... I am writing this letter in hope of educating the public that actions in rough sititutions happen and can be blown out of proportion. People pointing fingers can devastate lives. My story begins two years ago on April 12th, 1999. My son returned from school on this day rather upset. When I had ask him how his day was at school, I had no idea how devastating the events were going to take. My son started to tell me and ended up sobbing like I have never seen him do before. My son was a victim of continuous bullying at school. It had gone on for three months before becoming physical. On that day, if he had not held on to a trophy case, he would have been physical removed from the building to have the crap beaten out of him for the simple reason of not being liked. My son is also bipolar. The school had not informed me that anything happen on that day. When I inquired, I was shut out by the school staff. The police department would not even allow us to file a police report. I was even told to back off or I would be charged (later, to find out that the young man who was 18, was already on a deferred sentence for assault) I have taken my son to the local mental health department the day of Columbine. This was an appointment that I had set up the Thursday following his assault and before Columbine happened. He was afraid to go back to school. I was appalled when I found that my son was ready to take his own life because of the pain of being harassed daily, slammed into lockers, slapped upside the head, called names, etc. The center told us to watch him closely because he was thinking of taking his own life. Not of harming anyone else except himself. When I informed the school that he would not be returning because of this, and was there a way to get him some school work while we got him through this. I was told he was lying to get attention and I needed to put him back there in school as soon as possible. On April 29th the nightmare was only to get worse. The school claimed I made a bomb threat to my sons school because I was upset with them. The police even tried to tie me into the Columbine School Shootings. There is no evidence to support this claim that I made such a call and still is no evidence to support this. There was a subpoena to produce the phone records for My phone and the one at school in which the call came in on. Only mine and not the school was produced. My phone record showed that no such call came from my home as originally thought to have come from. There was no investigation to see who really made the call. ONLY THE INVESTIGATION THAT TOOK PLACE WAS THE ONE THE STAFF AT THE SCHOOL DID AMONG THEMSELVES IN THE HOUR BEFORE THE SCHOOL DECIDED TO CALL THE POLICE. This is shown in the police report. The one record which would have shown where the call came from was never produced. You see, I live in Jefferson County and my children did attend at one time the Jefferson County School. The children's education was stopped because of the mass hysteria that was going on here as a result of me being accused. You also would have thought I was on trial for the Columbine shootings. The mention of Columbine REPEATEDLY throughout my trial got a guilty conviction. No one ever believed me when I said I did not do this. There was never and will be any proof to supported this alleged charges for the simple fact I did not have anything to do with this. I went from the caller to the author of the call when the arresting officer admitted in court that he went on the school information only. Officals here need a person to set as an example and I was it. You can imagine what this would do to an innocent person and their families. Please, I now need help to get the truth out there and have documents to prove what I am saying is true. Every time there is a school shooting or a report of such acts, there is retaliation towards us. I spent 148 days in jail for a crime I had nothing to do with. My children are going to be 18 at the end of this month. They are twins. Their lives have been changed as a result of false accusations. I would like to restore their faith in our government and the system does work for the innocent also. My name is Faye (Rae) Holt. I am the parent in the Columbine time line accused of making a bomb threat to my sons school. You can reach me at ourclan2001@yahoo.com. I really need someone to listen and look at the real facts of this case. I will be happy to answer whatever questions or to provide any information you may want. Thank you for your time.
Rae Holt

Holt sent another e-mail to tell us the name of her son's school ...My sons High School is Pamona High School in Jefferson County School District
Columbine High School is in the same district in Jefferson County.She continues that the charges against her was Falsely Reporting a Bomb Threat, Felony Menacing.
This would be a story for the movies, an Erin Brockovich is needed out there in the mountains of Jefferson County. Culture Shock does not have all of the answers nor are we in the position to call her innocent, but on the surface it appears that Holt's motives were to protect her son. Her son was being bullied. Is this not what we are hearing on all the news shows now. Legislation is even being written to outlaw bullying. The spin of the psychologists everywhere shows us how clueless they are in this tragedy. We've moved from the blame noise about the guns, movies and games to blaming the kids.
NOW THEY TELL US! - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 26, 2001 at 13:03:22
Research from the Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry done in 1996 points out that, marital break up and single parenting contributes to violence in youth. Where has this study been. Well, it was done in 1996 and I certainly can't remember this hitting the news networks and newspaper reporting.Those items on the list must have hit home when it came out.
Recently on this site we called it Parenting From a Distance. Will anyone take a long look into the face of their children, see the damage we have done in our culture that told us the kids will be just fine after divorce. They have their whole life ahead of them and we can offer them quality time.What a blunder we have made in following the advice of the wizards of the mind.
Cal Thomas in an op-ed article titled Revenge of the Children, speaks volumes in just four words what is taking place in our children nationwide. Must be that we are reaping what we have sown.
GET YOUR KIDS OUT OF THE LINE OF FIRE - tdigirolamo Thu, Mar 22, 2001 at 19:11:09
DANGER IS STARING US FACE TO FACE ... We are in the midst of a real life horror and we can no longer ignore what is happening to the public schools in this country. There is yet another school shooting and here we go again. People, the problem is, too much psychology in the schools. Can we please take responsibility for this terrible tragedy in our history.
We urge those in the profession to turn to the role of psychology as the menace. Heed the the words of psychologist Carl Rogers, the founder of the self esteem movement, "I started this damn thing and look where it's taking us ... Places we may regret." Rogers took psychology out of the clinic and put it in the schools nationwide.
PARENTING FROM A DISTANCE - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 19, 2001 at 00:45:32
We have heard all the news shows, the newspaper stories about the most recent school shootings. The experts seem to be telling us that parent's need to listen to their children, spend more time with them.Remember the wizards of the mind, telling us about quality time, was just fine. But we hear that parent's are too busy at work and doing business. They're both striving, not just to make ends meet, but to achieve more and more of what they want.
Does anyone question our new cultural priorities? women are now in the work force, a choice certainly for many, but this parenting from a distance has created monsters. These kids are in need of mothers and fathers that hug em, talk to them, walk with them, and aware of every move they make. How can it be that the the answers so plain as the nose on our face, seems to elude us, or is it too politically incorect now to speak about such harsh realities. America needs a reality check. Can you hear the children? Do we want to hear the children?
A DEEPLY DISTURBING CULTURE SHOCK MOMENT - tdigirolamo Wed, Mar 7, 2001 at 15:18:15
A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD GAVE BIRTH ON HER OWN AND TOSSED THE BABY TO A STARVING DOG, A PIT BULL MIX, IN HER BACK YARD. How do these children come to this point in their mind to do such an act.
The teenager at the prom who had her baby in the restroom, trashed it, and goes out to the dance floor, and dances the night away. We've taken their innocense away and their sense of guilt.
Are we going to keep asking why they do this, instead of getting to the root cause of why this has come to America?
I believe we need to look deep into the eye's of too much psychology.
WHY HAS THIS HAPPENED AGAIN? - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 18:46:37
We are shocked once again by a 15 year old in Santee, California, and the question why, is upon our lips once again.A school shooting, two dead, thirteen wounded. Will we hear about the guns, the movies, the video games, or will we heed the wisdom from the one who knows, psychologist William R. Coulson. He believes we should be looking at the role of psychology in the schools. Coulson, Carl Rogers, and Abraham Maslow started something decades ago which they knew shortly after it began, it was a mistake. These psychologist, the founding fathers of the self esteem movement took psychology out of the clinic and put it in the school classroom.They called it, "Psychology for normals." Rogers said, " I started this damn thing and look where it's taking us ... places we may regret," Coulson says, "I'm sorry to say that it has." Maslow also said of his own work, "I smell insanity and death." The boys of the mind were right.
We roll out the crisis response teams immediately to counsel those who have experienced this horror, but we never look at the roll of psychology in this disturbing problem in our society. News reporters keep asking, "why has this happened?" They pose this question to the students, the parents, and psychologists, and still come up with questions. They've never asked that question of Psychologist William R. Coulson, Culture Shock has done just that. Come on Bill O'Reilly/Fox News, Chris Matthews/MSNBC, Wolfe Blitzer/CNN, and those who want to reveal the greatest untold story in our culture today.
It will be the first time that the psych-industry has taken resposibility for anything. Now there's a word they have misused in great abundance, responsibility.

20/20 HINDSIGHT: DEATH EDUCATION AT COLUMBINE HIGH - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:44:14
It was discovered on Culture Shock that Columbine High School, where 13 lives were unfortunately taken, are teaching Death Education. Our guest, Dr William R. Coulson, told us that 9 years ago there was cause for alarm when a Columbine student, tried to commit suicide. ABC's 20/20 investigated that Tara Becker recalled how the classes gave her the courage to prepare herself for taking her life. Tara and her family now live in Tennessee. In 1990, 20/20 did the segment which they called Death in the Classroom. In 1990 the show reports ... "Over 1 out of every 10 of our public schools includes Death Education ... Its emotional impact on students is still unknown"... Now with hindsight being 20/20 ... Hugh Downs at the end of the segment said, "Somehow, this teaching is overly morbid," ... Culture Shock agrees and believes we should revisit this chilling horror.

Returning to Columbine after the school shootings in 1999 Coulson was alarmed to find that Death Education is still taught in the school. When the shootings occurred why were there no questions looking into this failed teaching. It seems, that since the public schools have been teaching kids to stop taking drugs, they're doing more drugs. Since teaching sex education, they're doing more sex, and now Death Education, this is an American tragedy. Coulson who was a participant on 20/20 nine years before the shooting said, "What makes us think that American education is going to do a good job teaching Death Education. We ought to be trembling about the fact that the schools which failed to teach academics are now presuming to teach on matters of Life And Death." Yes, hindsight is 20/20.

-- Culture Shock
ALL THAT PSYCHOLOGY AND THE PRESIDENT - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:43:30
For decades we have been in the era of psychobable and all the misery and pain it brings to life.The Rogerian mystique ... You are not responsible for your actions ... your mother is, your grandmother, your father, and now Prime Minister Ehud Barak is the one being blamed for giving the pardon to the fugitive Marc Rich. That's psychology at its best, that's what it offers, and Clinton is the product of it.
Former President Clinton 8 years in office never made a mistake. All the scandals, his unpresidential like behavior, the money grabbing, all the way to the last day, to the last hour, of the last minute, he never had a moment like that great president who said, "the buck stops here." As a matter of fact, Janet Reno had that "Truman moment," when Waco went down in flames. Well, in true fashion psychology continues to drag to the lowest depths, yet another story of a man from Hope. He always used the words, "I feel your pain," only because he could never get over his own.
THE BREAD SCARE - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:42:50
Research Proves Bread To Be Dangerous!

A recent scientific announcement revealed what many had long feared, common household bread is dangerous! I didn't believe it at first either, but consider the following research and then draw your own conclusions.

1. More than 98 percent of convicted felons are bread users.

2. Fully HALF of all children who grow up in bread-consuming households score below average on standardized tests.

3. In the 18th century, when virtually all bread was baked in the home, the average life expectancy was less than 50 years; infant mortality rates were unacceptably high; many women died in childbirth; and diseases such as typhoid, yellow fever, and influenza ravaged whole nations.

4. More than 90 percent of violent crimes are committed within 24 hours of eating bread.

5. Bread has been proven to be addictive. Subjects deprived of bread and given only water to eat, begged for bread after as little as two days.

6. Bread is often a "gateway" food item, leading the user to "harder" items such as butter, jelly, peanut butter, and even cream cheese.

7. Bread has been proven to absorb water. Since the human body is more than 90 percent water, it follows that eating bread could lead to your body being taken over by this absorptive food product, turning you into a soggy, gooey, bread-pudding person.

8. Newborn babies can choke on bread.

9. Bread is baked at temperatures as high as 450 degrees Fahrenheit! That kind of heat can kill an adult in less than two minutes.

10. Most American bread eaters are utterly unable to distinguish between significant scientific fact and meaningless statistical babbling.

As the last point clearly shows-you can take "scientific" research to an extreme and twist it to prove anything that you want. There are well-meaning individuals who listen to the liberal politicians "spin" on the news and believe it. You my friend should know better than that! Do more than listen in fear to the latest "threat" to our health or safety-research it yourself. The next time you hear about how many acres of rainforest were destroyed by the capitalist land-developers, ask how many acres of trees they planted through forestry programs. Ask about how the affordable housing, the jobs that were created, and the quality of life that was improved. The next time someone scares you by saying the "pink stuff" will kill you, ask them to prove it. You may recall that the fear-mongers retracted that twenty year public health scare with "oops, our research was flawed."

Before you give up eating your next bagel in an attempt to avoid the dangers of bread, do your homework. Liberals tend to draw impulsive conclusions to make anything a crisis. A conservative perspective will help you to avoid the panic. Stop letting the liberals scare you into a life of fear. Start doing your own thinking. As you do, you will find life is a lot more fun with bread. Try it!

Dwight Bain co-host Culture Shock
DO YOU PROMISE TO TELL THE TRUTH THE WHOLE TRUTH - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:41:56
I find it deeply troubling that in a congressional hearing, the swearing in of witnesses before that honorable body is abbreviated. Congressman John Conyers did that before a committee he was chairing when his Democrat Party was in the leadership. Years ago he abbreviated the swearing in of witnesses.
I was stunned back then when that was done. But today I am deeply dissapointed, that before the committee, chaired by Congressman Tauzin, he also omitted ... so help me God, as he swore in the television executives. Roger Ailes of Fox News, a man I admire, had difficulty with the idea that he needed to be sworn in at all, I agree. On this particular matter anyway.
Have we come so far in America that we don't stand before God to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth? Perhaps, that is the reason so many, can't recall, don't remember, and just straight out lie.
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines the word abbreviate, this way, to reduce to a shorter form intended to stand for the whole. Not this time. By abbreviating sworn testimony we assume to put our trust in man. How incredibly naive. On the walls,and usually above the heads of the judges across the country the words, In God We Trust. That still stands.
AND THE MORAL OF THIS STORY IS? - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:41:04
Have you noticed in recent years Hollywood finds it hard to end a story where the good guy wins in the end? Those stories are hard to find today. It's no wonder that we have the most shocking things happening in our culture. It's not a stretch to recognize, that since the film industry has taken us down this road, behavior has changed radically. Piggyback television, music, the internet, the beat goes on ... The cadence of which leads to a frenzy. Eminem, up for Grammy's at the same time in court for assault and a weapons charge. Puff and Jennifer Lopez, close enough to a major criminal act. The thirteen year old boy who stabs his 2 year old brother 17 times. The teenage girl who gave birth at the prom, trashed the baby, and continued the dance. Thirteen dead at Columbine ... And the moral of the story? Life imitating art.
AND NOW JESSE JACKSON BECOMES ANOTHER CULTURE SHOCK MOMENT - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:40:25
Remember Jimmy Swaggert, Jim Bakker, and the preacher men.Jesse Jackson is a preacher, who like the others failed in their responsibility and position.Failed like the others because so many followed them and lifted them in the highest places of influence.
Rev.Jackson lost his way because the country has lost its way.How?! How?! Knowing that he too had fallen as former President Clinton had fallen, could he have placed himself in such a position to counsel the president, and do it in such a way, that it would not be self-serving.In hindsight, we now know a more complete story.
It was wrong for Jimmy Swaggert to return to his ministry so soon, The Assembly of God Church leaders, demanded one year of him in counseling, but he too declined to follow their lead. His Ministry has seriously faded from prominence. Swaggert also felt the need to return to a severely crippled ministry after only 90 days.He felt, that only he, could save it from total disaster.
Rev. Jackson is returning to his organization when it too is under fire, and criticism from several fronts.However, he also wants to pilot his Rainbow Coalition through the perfect storm.His manner of speaking in prosiac terms will fall in deep water. No rainbow after this storm.
BILL CLINTON ... THE GIFTS, THE PARDONS, AND THE OFFICE IN NEW YORK CITY - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:39:42
Have you noticed? It's taken this long for us to figure out why William Jefferson Clinton has behaved as he has.All the talk shows CNN, MSNBC, FOX NEWS, and the networks, seem to be blaming it on the past. Pundits on the left say, he is a flawed man ... If only he had a father who was there for him.
Our future as a nation will have a multitude of men and women who will be growing up without a father or a mother.Our culture is such, that to be self absorbing, self-esteeming, and if it feels good do it, just do it, seems to be the mantra of the day. The end of the story, Bill Clinton Did Good But He Got Away With ...The gifts, those outrageous pardons, indictment and the office in New York City. You know it's kind of like Hollywood and the stories they write and the films they produce.At the end of many motion pictures and television productions these days... Bad guy's get away with murder ... And the good guy's are ridculed and trashed. Sound familiar?
Some are just beginning to realize how irresponsible former President Clinton was in “his last days, and last hours, to the last minute.” Though many have known this for years, they are some of his most beloved supporters. I guess they feel free now that he is out of power, to be critical, rather than at a time when it would have been courageous, and true to do so.How do you feel now America?
Too much Psychology... is Dangerous or Destructive or both? - tdigirolamo Mon, Mar 5, 2001 at 16:38:41
Opinion from: Dwight Bain, Nationally Certified Counselor

The answer is yes!

We are living in a day and age that offers a barrage of psychological options to children in the classroom. You can take classes to improve your wounded inner child, feel good about your broken past or sit around the circle singing 'kum-ba-ya'. The irony is that we have a generation of American children that have great self-esteem levels... but they can't read!

Jeff, do the math on this one! School was designed to prepare children with the tools that they need to function in the world. To teach them how to read, use mathematical skills, develop the ability to communicate, both verbally and with the keyboards of computers. School is designed to train and develop children into balanced citizens; it is not to replace the need for parents to be the best source of insight and direction in a child's life.
Parents were designed for that leadership role, not social workers. It is not the psychologist's job to answer questions that should be addressed by a mother, or a grandfather. While I realize that some broken families may not have extended family support, most students do have supports and resources; beginning with mom and dad, then extended family and family pets. Then, low, low on the list are psychologists and psychiatrists. It is not a therapists job to step in to a parent's shoes. Ever!

What about the Littleton school shootings that we discussed on CULTURE SHOCK.

Did the excessive psychology in those classrooms solve the problems? No, it did not. If anything, Eric and Dillian spent so much time with self-absorbed, psychological introspection that they apparently began to lose touch with the real world. (Not unlike certain talk show hosts... (you know who you are J. G.), While they were able to escape back and forth between the over-all experience of reality and fantasy, eventually the fantasy world of being a 'hero' in their minds by using violence seemed to take over their minds and led them to make terrible decisions.

Decisions that totally slipped through the cracks of all the counseling and school based psychology that was supposed to protect a dozen teenagers from danger. But that kind of protection can't exist in a fantasy world where feeling good is better than striving to be good; and where liberal educators tell children that all that matters is how you feel. Sounds like a line from a song... in a wrong tune. I love you Jeff, and you are my friend, even if you live in a dream world.

Sleep well my dear co-host, because the conservatives are wide awake to help make your world a better place. Oh, and while you had dreams of the world as you wanted it to be, we were working on the world that is, and giving it some needed serious attention. Good thing that not everyone around here believes in the Tooth Fairy!

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